Why Some People Hate Dancing While Others Love It
The question of why some people hate dancing while others love it is often dismissed as pointless. Similarly, we can question why some people enjoy activities like playing tennis or caving, while others do not. The truth is, everyone has different tastes and preferences. What matters most is that we respect those differences and appreciate the variety in human life.
The Reasons Behind the Hate
It is fascinating to explore the underlying reasons individuals may hate dancing. Here are some potential explanations:
Musical Deafness: Some individuals are musically deaf, and dancing appears nonsensical to them. This makes the act of dancing seem like a misunderstanding or even chaos to those who do not fully grasp the rhythm or music. Social Inhibition: Some people enjoy listening to music but are hesitant to express themselves through it. They might say, "I like to listen to music, but I hate to dance to it." These individuals can be described as super-reserved introverts who are uncomfortable expressing their emotions. Consequences of Close Contact: Others are wary of dancing because they think people lose control and may do something stupid, particularly during intimate or sensual dances like tango or bachata. The fear of losing oneself or others is a valid concern. Inability to Perform: Some individuals hate dancing because they simply can't do it well. This can be due to factors such as physical limitations. For example, a slim ideal ballerina without interest in ballet or an elderly person with health issues. Perfectionism: Many people equate dancing with flawlessness, and if they are unable to reach that level of perfection, they will reject the activity. It’s often a case of missing the forest for the trees.Understanding Dance as Expression
Dance is a form of expression, and like music, it can be highly personal. It is a way for people to communicate their feelings, much like a painter uses their canvas or a musician their instrument. For instance, a musician expresses themselves through performing on an instrument, while a sculptor uses materials to convey emotion. Similarly, dancing is a form of self-expression, but it requires both the right physical conditions and the skill to perform.
Some individuals have the physical condition but lack the skills, while others may have the skills but not the condition. For example, a person with a lithe, ideal ballerina body may not be interested in ballet, while an elderly person with health issues may not be able to perform complex dance moves. There are also those who have both the skills and the body, and they are often the darlings of YouTube videos, showcasing their talent and hard work.
The Popularity of Dance
Despite the apprehension of some, dance continues to be popular because it serves as a powerful tool. It provides a physical outlet when listening to music and allows individuals to connect with the music in a personal way. Additionally, watching someone dance can be incredibly alluring, turning a mere performance into a captivating experience. For example, performing artists would appear silly if they were standing still on stage, especially pop idols whose charm often lies in their dynamic performances.
Dance also serves as a way to build physical intimacy, both with known individuals or complete strangers. It is a form of courtship or even spark that ignites curiosity and attraction. However, not everyone shares this view. There are those who despise dancing, no matter how it is performed or who is performing it. They argue that dance is simply a form of frivolous gyrating to music without any real expression.
In a personal reflection, I have a complex relationship with dance. As a musician who uses music as a form of expression, I can understand the value of dance. However, I have never been a fan of dancing myself except at weddings or other hedonic occasions. I firmly believe that musicals, a form of dance, are one of the lowest forms of art. I would rather be setting on fire than sitting through a live musical performance. So, I neither despise nor appreciate dance to the fullest extent, but I do recognize and respect its existence and its enduring popularity among humanity.