Unsettling Thoughts: Chills and the Roots of Tribalism
Reflecting on life's profound and unsettling thoughts can sometimes lead to a physical sensation of chill, like the chill that gripped me when I watched the news about Harmony Montgomery, a young girl from New Hampshire who went missing in 2019. Even without any personal connection, my heart ached at the possibility of such a tragic end for a precious soul.
The Emotional Struggle: Chills from Tragic News
As I watched the news, the image of Harmony's face sent shivers down my spine. It was not just the report of her disappearance and the subsequent accusation of homicide, but the profound sadness it evoked in me, the kind that a father might feel for his lost child. While I do not support police brutality, cases of child abuse and murder often evoke a strong desire for justice.
Harmony sounded like a ray of sunshine, someone who could illuminate a room. However, her story is just one among many that haunted my thoughts. The idea that no one might come to my own funeral, that my existence might be forgotten, is a terrifying concept. These thoughts challenge my emotional security and suggest the raw vulnerability we all share.
Struggling with Unresolved Anxiety
Another unsettling thought that gives me chills is the reality of unresolved anxiety. Waking up in the early morning with a convergence of bad experiences is irrational, but it's a common experience. I might wake up wondering if I caused the guy I cut off to have a bad day, or if I could have put more effort into a project. These thoughts are a reminder that anxiety is often a result of irrational fears and anxieties, such as the fear of regret or the fear of offending someone.
The Evolution of Tribalism: From Religion to Ideology
The concept of tribalism, or the instinct to identify with and prioritize one's own group, is deeply rooted in human history. It has shifted from religion and race to ideology in modern times. Contemporary tribalism is evident in online debates and social media conversations, where young people form tight-knit groups, often exploited by older members for personal gain or political agendas. This has led to increasing divisiveness and a lack of understanding among different groups.
Many argue that despite reduced racism, sexism, and xenophobia compared to the past, tribalism is still on the rise. This is exemplified by the heated debates on Twitter, where one mismatched comment can lead to a mob attacking the individual. These tribes are driven by a sense of righteousness and a belief that their way is the only way, leading to a polarizing effect on society.
Historically, tribalism led to violence and conflict over power and resources. In the modern age, this shift to ideological tribalism has created groups like Neo-Nazis and Neo-Marxists, each with their own twisted concepts of freedom, justice, and equality. The lines are drawn based on different ideological beliefs, with each side claiming that their views are the only correct ones. This attitude often leads to a us-versus-them mentality, undermining the very principles of equality and justice that they claim to uphold.
While some might argue that these movements are fighting against common injustices, the way they define "us" and "them" is problematic. The definition of "fascism" or "capitalism" can be highly subjective and often includes any view they disagree with. This blanket approach creates a toxic environment where open dialogue and understanding are replaced by hate and aggression. It’s crucial for individuals to recognize these flaws and engage in meaningful, empathetic conversations to foster a more inclusive and tolerant society.
Ultimately, the roots of tribalism lie in our primal instincts. However, as we evolve and gain more knowledge about our past, we can choose to embrace inclusivity and understanding, rather than falling into the trap of tribalistic thinking. This is a challenge for all of us, and one that requires constant awareness and intention to foster a sense of unity and shared purpose.