Understanding Trans Gay Men: Clarifying Confusions
Introduction
I’ll give you the benefit of the doubt that this is a sincere question. A trans gay man is a trans man who is sexually attracted to other men. This can seem confusing because gender and sexual orientation are two different concepts. Let’s clarify this further to help you understand better.
Confusion and Awareness
But but but!!! you say trans men are women so they’re basically straight. No. Trans men are men. And like cis men who can be gay or straight, some trans men are gay. It’s essential to recognize the distinction between gender identity and sexual orientation.
Visionary Exemplification: Altered Carbon
OK. Have you seen Altered Carbon? It’s a book-turned-TV show. It’s on Netflix, and you should check it out. One key concept of Altered Carbon is that humans can store their consciousness and memories in a disk-shaped device called DHF. This device is implanted at the back of the neck of a human body and continues to record everything. This technology allows humans to switch from one body to the next, these physical bodies are called lsquo;sleevesrsquo;.
These sleeves are extremely expensive, especially if they’re lsquo;costumersquo; made. Say you are a gay man. Your body was badly damaged in a car accident or something and you need a new one. But you couldn’t afford a costume-made body. And just so happens, the only body the hospital had was a female body. So you have no choice but to take that sleeve. You’re still a gay man; you are still attracted to men. But with this temporary sleeve, you are perceived as a straight woman, which does not match your consciousness.
As soon as you have saved enough money, you switched to a male body. You’re still a gay man; you are still attracted to men. Now your body matches your gender identity. This example demonstrates that one’s sexual orientation remains the same, regardless of their physical gender.
Transgendery Albus Dumbledore
OK. Say you’re Albus Dumbledore. You’re a gay man and in love with the broody Grindelwald. And there this one time you’re on a mission to hunt down some evil wizards, and that required you to infiltrate a party as a woman. That wouldn’t be a problem for Dumbledore. He casually created Polyjuice Potion with his eyes closed and drank it. He changed into a beautiful woman with boobs and lady parts and everything. But he’s still a gay man and is still in love with Grindelwald. He just now in a woman’s body.
After the polyjuice potion’s effects have worn off, Dumbledore will have his own body that matches his gender identity. His sexual orientation never changes. It’s not that hard to grasp once you break it down into these types of scenarios.
Conclusion
Understanding trans gay men involves recognizing that their sexual orientation is not defined by their physical gender but rather by their own identity and attractions. Gender and sexuality are distinct, and this distinction is crucial for a clear and compassionate understanding of individuals with diverse gender identities.
Key Takeaways: - Trans men are men and can be sexually attracted to men. - Sexual orientation and gender identity are separate concepts.
If you have more questions or need further clarification, feel free to reach out. Your understanding is important, and accurate information helps foster a more inclusive and supportive community.