The Tooth Fairy: Lying or Just a Fun Tradition?

So, will you lie to your child about the Tooth Fairy? This has long been a topic of debate among parents and educators. While some choose to lie, suggesting stories of the Tooth Fairy catching up or being overworked, others claim it is better to be honest and dispel these characters as mere myths. Both approaches have their staunch advocates.

The Decision Behind Deception

Many parents chose to lie, such as the author of this piece, who did so in the 1980s. She was taught the Tooth Fairy by her own parents in the 1950s and felt a predisposition to do the same with her own child. Despite her best efforts to be the Tooth Fairy, she often forgot, resulting in stories of the Tooth Fairy being busy and catching up. However, just like the author, most eventually made sure the switch did happen.

Why Lie to Our Kids?

Some parents might argue that lying to their children about the Tooth Fairy could be linked to their own personal experiences. Their parents did the same, and they believe that misleading their children is a generational tradition. However, not everyone agrees. Another parent, whom the author does not know well, chose to be entirely transparent with her children, treating these characters as fun fairy tale creations meant for holiday fun.

The Pros and Cons of Being Honest

There are those who believe that telling the truth is the best approach. They argue that these characters, such as the Tooth Fairy, Easter Bunny, and Santa Claus, are merely part of the fun and wonder of holiday traditions. For example, the author's sister, who lived far away, had a strong belief in these characters, claiming that they made the holidays more magical. Her kids, knowing these as a part of their culture, still enjoyed the fun and excitement of the holidays, including playing Santa and passing out presents.

Preserving the Magic

So, what about the deep-seated belief in money under the pillow? The author shares that her children, now grown, still got a dollar under their pillow when they lost a tooth, a testament to the influence of inflation since her childhood, when a dime was the reward.

Conclusion

The question of lying to children about the Tooth Fairy is a personal choice that reflects the values and experiences of each parent. Whether you choose to lie, being truthful, or a mix of both, the most important aspect is providing your child with joy and positive memories. What are your thoughts on the Tooth Fairy? Share your perspective and experiences in the comments below.