The Thrill of Being Scared: How Fear and Excitement Are Intricately Connected
From adrenaline-inducing roller-coaster rides to horror films and even daring carnival rides, humans are often drawn to experiences that may seem dangerous or scary. This behavior is not only a testament to our natural curiosity and desire for adventure but also a fascinating aspect of human psychology. Let's explore why we enjoy being scared and the parallels between fear and excitement.
Roller-Coasters and Desperately Risk-Takers
Riding roller-coasters and engaging in risky behaviors like skydiving or bungee jumping are favorite pastimes for many thrill-seekers. These experiences provide a natural high, which is very similar to the thrill of excitement. The adrenaline rush experienced during these activities is so intense that it draws us repeatedly back to such sensations. For most people, these activities are the opposite of the everyday monotony that we face, and they seek such experiences to satisfy their natural curiosity and desire for knowledge.
Why Do We Enjoy Being Scared?
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Young girls, for instance, enjoy screaming on carnival rides because it provides a thrilling but non-threatening break from their mundane routines. These experiences, although scary in nature, are actually a form of excitement, much like being part of a political rally, cheering at a ball game, or engaging in activities such as flying or skiing.
The Continuum of Fear and Excitement
The experience of fear and excitement can be thought of as existing on a continuum of control. When we experience something that brings high emotional arousal but in a context where we feel we have control, it is experienced as excitement. For example, we enjoy roller-coasters because we are confident that the ride will remain on track, and we are securely fastened. Similarly, we enjoy skydiving because we trust that the parachute will open, ensuring our safe landing. Watching horror movies feels thrilling because we know the fear will pass and we will be back in our cozy seats.
However, when we find ourselves in situations of perceived danger and feel we have no control over the outcome, the experience shifts from excitement to unbridled fear. This is evident in extreme circumstances like being involved in natural disasters or in war. In contrast, everyday fears like job loss, relationship breakup, or stock market crashes do not generate the sensation of excitement precisely because of the lack of control.
Not All Excitement Is Associated with Fear
It's important to note that not all experiences of excitement are tied to fear. For instance, the excitement felt during a sporting event is often due to the anticipation of a glorious future. We feel excited when things seem to be going well and there is no fear of a negative outcome.
In conclusion, while fear and excitement may seem to be polar opposites, they are intricately intertwined. These experiences not only contribute to the richness of human life but also challenge our understanding of fear and its role in our lives.