The Split from the Royal Family: Was It Meghan's or Harry's Idea?

For years, the question of whether Meghan Markle planned the split from the royal family or if it was primarily Harry's idea has haunted royal watchers and enthusiasts. Delving into the roots of their decision involves understanding the treatment both faced during their time with the royal family and the shifting dynamics within the royal household.

Harsh Treatment and Media Scrutiny

One of the key factors that pushed the couple towards a split was the treatment they received from the UK press, particularly the tabloids. The intensity and hostility of the media coverage were unprecedented, often bordering on viciousness. To put this into context, this level of scrutiny was not just excessive, but also unfounded. There were no legitimate reasons for such treatment—no scandal, no inappropriate behavior, no betrayal of public trust.

Behind-the-Scenes Maneuvering

Despite the public narrative, behind the scenes, there was a clear strategy to sideline the couple. They were often marginalized, with their public appearances and engagements reduced. It was becoming apparent that they wouldn't be able to compete for the spotlight with the rest of the royal family.

Both Meghan and Harry Had Their Limits

The media scrutiny and the pressure it brought were unbearable for both Meghan and Harry. Additionally, there was a growing sense that they were being subtly excluded from the limelight. Their initial popularity was seen as a problem by the monarchy, as it was distracting from the traditional focus. They began to feel like they were being edged out and out of favor.

Desire for Control and Safety

Meghan and Harry wanted control over their destiny and their lives, moving away from the hateful stories that defined their public persona. They sought to escape the constant hatred and the hateful stories that had become a cottage industry. Many of these stories were now fueled by those making a living by spreading lies about random people they didn't know, earning hundreds of thousands of dollars in the process.

Harry's Ambitions

It’s also important to note that Harry, who wanted to be treated equally with his older brother Prince William, saw a clear pattern where his father, Princess Diana, had failed to convey to him that he would never be more important than Prince William, who was destined to be the next king. This realization added to the emotional and psychological pressures the couple faced.

A Continuing Issue

The issue of media manipulation and the hate campaign against the couple continues to this day. While the hatred and misinformation persist, they have managed to find a new platform of engagement and influence outside the royal structure. The couple's journey and the split from the royal family highlight the complex dynamics and pressures within royal institutions, as well as the resilient spirit of those fighting against injustice and adversity.