The Significance of My Wedding Songs: A Journey Through Lyrics and Love
One of the most memorable parts of any wedding celebration is the selection of a wedding song. For me, wedding songs hold a special place in my heart, symbolizing the strength, love, and enduring commitment of my relationships.
Marvin Gaye Tammy Terrell: A Lyrical Duet for the Ages
I was deeply moved by the song "You're All I Need to Get By" by Marvin Gaye and Tammy Terrell for my first wedding. The lyrics allude to lovers who find strength from one another, facing adversity together with unwavering support.
The significance of this song in our relationship was profound. My groom and I knew one another for just a brief two months before we got engaged. Despite the challenges I had witnessed in my parents' failed marriage, I leaped with faith and trust, and I am eternally grateful for this leap of faith. He reassured me, saying, 'It will be okay' and this belief guided us through our journey. We are still together, side by side, 27 years later. Our fellow faithfulness is one of the strongest ties we have, along with his patient, kind-hearted nature, and dedication.
Sharing My History: 'You Are The Best Thing That Ever Happened To Me'
For my second wedding, my husband and I chose 'The Wonder of You,' a beautiful yet profound song. However, I had a request - 'You Are The Best Thing That Ever Happened To Me' by Billy Joel. Although unusual, we honored both requests, dancing to both songs during our ceremony and reception. 'You Are The Best Thing That Ever Happened To Me' resonated deeply with me. The line, 'My romance doesn’t need a thing but you,' perfectly captured the essence of our love.
Together, we had wonderful years filled with laughter, support, and growth. Unfortunately, he passed away, leaving a void in my life that music and memories help to fill.
A Homecoming Celebration: 'Simple Gifts' from Aaron Copland
Our wedding ceremony at home was a simple yet beautiful affair, attended by a dozen close friends and family members. For the special moment when the bride descended the stairs, we chose the 'Simple Gifts' theme from Aaron Copland's Lincoln Portrait. This thematic choice symbolized the humility and beauty of our union, which was celebrated within the heart of our home.
Romantic Rhythms: 'Satin Doll' and 'My Romance'
For the ceremony music, we had 'Satin Doll' by Duke Ellington, a smooth and elegant choice. 'My Romance' by Jimmy Van Heusen was selected for our first dance, with lyrics that spoke to the purity and deep connection we shared: 'My romance doesn’t need a thing but you.'
My husband's choice of 'I aint for no girl catching me' in the lyrics of 'Satin Doll' remains a mystery to me, though it adds a layer of intrigue to our shared heritage. Nevertheless, our enduring relationship for 31 years testament to the enduring power of these lyrics and the love they signify.
Each wedding song, lyric, and moment has played a crucial role in shaping my journey through love, commitment, and the unbreakable bond between two hearts. They remind us of the strength, resilience, and joy that music can bring to our lives and our marriages.