The Moment I Embraced Comfort Over Fashion

For as long as I can remember, fashion trends have never really appealed to me. In my personal experience, they often seem like just plain ugly or stupid. However, at a certain point in life, I realized that it was time to transition from following the latest trends to dressing my age.

My Journey with Fashion

Currently 56 years old, I predominantly wear t-shirts featuring superheroes, rock bands, and horror themes. Surprisingly, some people feel that I shouldn't dress this way. Yet, I never knew there was an age-related cut-off for fashion.

Previously, I used to dress fashionably every day, only to notice that people barely paid attention to my outfit. This realization led me to stop wearing uncomfortable clothes that I felt forced to wear just to impress others. The key was realizing that fashion trends were often uncomfortable and not always practical.

No One Cares, So Why Dress for Them?

A significant turning point for me was when I came to the conclusion that nobody really cared about the outfits that everyone else was wearing. This realization was coupled with the observation of the excessive amount of money spent to get into these trends. It became abundantly clear that I should dress for my comfort and personal satisfaction instead of societal expectations.

Embracing Comfort and Practicality

After turning 56, I embraced a comfort-oriented wardrobe, especially when it came to medical necessities like medium support hose. These started to enter my life in 2007, and I found them incredibly comfortable. This also marked a shift in my mother's perspective, as she encouraged me to wear what I wanted. My cardiologist’s prescriptions, with their unpredictable side effects, further reinforced my need for comfort.

My curiosity led me to explore skirts and dresses as part of my wardrobe. I particularly liked the idea of a kilt, which I ordered to celebrate our family history. A friend's derogatory comment about a skirt made me want to explore the differences for myself. As a result, I now predominantly wear skirts, dresses, or tunics in a more masculine style. This decision was not just about comfort but also about personal expression and style.

The year 2015 was a milestone for me, marking the end of the dull drab world of dark suits and ties. Instead, I embraced vibrant colors and outfits with a sense of pop. Adapting to this new style also allowed me to feel more relaxed and self-assured.

Embracing a New Phase

As I transitioned from a 30s secretary to a sales representative at a Fortune 500 company, I stopped wearing mini-skirts and opted for a more conservative look. This was not just a dress code but also a reflection of my professional and personal aspirations. I began to wear business suits with a jacket or skirt, blouses buttoned up to my chin, and avoided anything sheer.

I also gave up high heels with ankle straps, opting for plain pumps instead. These changes were all aimed at looking more professional and conservative. My journey through the years has been about understanding my needs, comfort, and expressing my individuality, rather than adhering to societal expectations or fashion trends.

So, dear readers, if you find yourself at a point where you feel like you need to stop following the latest trends, take a step back and think about why you’re doing it. Dress in a way that reflects who you are and makes you feel confident and comfortable. Everyone deserves the freedom to choose their attire based on their needs, not just societal pressures.