The Journey of a Geek: From Pride to Indifference
When I was younger, I loved being a geek. In fact, whenever kids called me a geek, I took it as a compliment. As a college student, I proudly wore my spandex gym shorts, grey sweats, and Levis polyester action slacks with a Levis Orange Tag or my black or blue jeans. My roommate often joked, 'You look like a geek,' and even made fun of my tighty whiteys as underwear. I was also a keen follower of computer sci-fi movies like Death Note and Star Wars, but back then, I didn't mind being misunderstood. However, as I grew older, my perspectives on being a geek changed significantly.
Geek Pride and Social Experiences
There are many times when I made a joke in a company but my audience didn't understand. That's just how it is for the comic geeks who have the unique ability to understand complex jokes and references. Though they might be seen as having no life, you'll be surprised to find that many geeks are leading a relaxed and chill life.
Being a geek isn't all bad. It's not the same as being a nerd. A geek has the capability to understand jokes and references that are not easily understood by others. They also possess a wealth of knowledge that can be useful in various situations. However, as time passed, I realized that being a geek is both a blessing and a curse.
The Stereotypes of a Geek
A geek is often stereotyped as a computer programmer, enthusiast, or someone who watches sci-fi movies like Star Wars, Lord of the Rings, and Death Note. They are also frequently seen as someone who tests video games and competes in tournaments like DotA or League of Legends. Additionally, they are known for surviving on technical jargon and coding in any condition as long as there is a power outlet for their laptop. Geeks might even have a debate over the endings of films like Inception or The Dark Knight.
How Geeks are Perceived by Different Groups
By Other Geeks: Geeks tend to form close bonds with each other, as they share a common interest. They appreciate each other's jokes and jokes about programming and science. They find many common things to talk about, and as such, geeks feel a sense of belonging within their own group.
By Other Non-Geeks: Many people respect geeks because they are perceived to be smart and intelligent. Some even seek their company to gain respect. However, non-geeks often view geeks as socially awkward and socially challenged. They tend to avoid social events with geeks to avoid embarrassment. This alone can make geeks feel lonely and isolated.
By Parents/Family: Parents and family members often do not acknowledge the presence of their geek child in family events. There is minimal social interaction unless there is a topic of interest that both the parties can debate on. Parents often think there is something wrong with their child and label them as a social retard.
Conclusion: Pros and Cons of Being a Geek
Being a geek has its pros and cons. The distinctive abilities and interests of geeks often set them apart, but at the same time, it can lead to loneliness and social challenges. Despite all that, in my opinion, being a geek is amazing and also quite challenging. The pros certainly outdo the cons. For all geeks, acknowledging and embracing your unique traits can lead to a fulfilling and enriching life.