Stray Cats and Domesticated Cats: Their Reactions Around Humans

Have you ever wondered how a stray cat that used to be a pet reacts around people? Are they more friendly and likely to come to your window or door than those born feral?

It is commonly observed that most domesticated cats that are social to strangers will still hold back their friendliness, especially in the presence of humans other than their caretakers. When a domesticated cat is abandoned, it often takes time for them to adjust to the new environment. Every cat has its own specific traits and characteristics, and these can play a significant role in how the cat will respond to humans. Other factors include the cat's age, the duration it has spent in the wild, and how long it has been without a human caretaker.

Adopting and Caring for a Stray Cat

I noticed a stray cat for about six months, and during this time, she would not allow me near her. I could tell she had been abandoned but not born feral. I decided to start putting food out for her, and eventually, she began to rely on it for sustenance. Her health was a concern, and I suspected she had worms due to the fleas she had, so I treated her while providing her with the food. Over time, I learned that her name was Snowy.

Snowy's improved health helped in her response to me, but it was the consistent food that was the key factor in her adjusting to me. After a year of care, Snowy has started to lay on my blanket on my bed, near me. She is very affectionate, following me around outside and headbutting my legs frequently. She has now accepted my home as hers, a testament to the care and patience provided.

Adjusting to Stray Life

Despite having once been a domesticated cat, Snowy has adjusted nicely to her new life as a stray. However, I cannot definitively say if she is more affectionate now than she was before, as I do not have a baseline comparison.

Each stray cat will react differently due to numerous variables. Some might approach your door or window, meow, or remain aloof. It is suspected that the longer a domesticated cat is left to fend for itself, the more likely it is to become semi-feral, provided it lives that long.

My Personal Experience with Malcolm

Malcolm was born in a feral cat colony and was picked up as a kitten, spending his early months in foster care with different homes until he reached me at about a year old. When I first got him, he was scared of everything. It took months before he would allow me to pet him. Today, however, Malcolm trusts me completely. He sits on my lap, sleeps with me every night, and loves when I pet him. He has made progress in warming up to my partner over the past couple of years, but he still considers me his primary caretaker.

Malcolm does not trust anyone else, highlighting the strong bond formed between a human and an animal that once lived in the wild. His story emphasizes the importance of patience and consistent care in the transition from a feral to a domesticated life.

When considering adopting a stray or domesticated cat, it is essential to be prepared for the various reactions and behaviors that may be exhibited. By providing love, care, and time, many cats can adjust and flourish in human homes.