Introduction

Every individual is a product of the environment and the upbringing they receive. Reflecting on my life, I realize the profound impact my parents had on molding who I am today. Growing up, my parents instilled in me certain values and practices that significantly shaped my worldview and personal growth.

My Mother's Influence: Love, Kindness, and Faith

My mother played a pivotal role in fostering my love for animals, kindness, and faith. She taught me the importance of prayer and the value of self-care. These lessons not only enriched my spiritual life but also taught me the significance of empathy and compassion towards others. However, there is one critical lesson that I wish she had included: the intrinsic worth of every individual and the right to be treated with dignity. This realization has profoundly altered my perspective on life and my relationships with others.

My Father's Influence: Education and Personal Worth

My father believed in the transformative power of education, emphasizing its importance from a young age. He instilled in me the belief that education was the key to success and a better future. However, he could have also emphasized the inherent worth of every person and that true success involves self-fulfillment and happiness. This perspective would have provided a more holistic view of life and personal growth.

Lessons in Independence and Self-Respect

Both my parents encouraged my independence, allowing me to make my own decisions and take responsibility for my actions. While they did not always step in to help me every time, their non-intervention taught me invaluable life skills and helped me become more self-reliant. They also instilled in me the importance of being kind to others, fostering a sense of community and empathy within me.

Crucial Life Skills and Values

My parents provided me with a stable home, basic necessities, and opportunities for fun and leisure. They never abused me and always maintained a loving, nurturing environment. Though I rarely heard them say it, I was aware of their love. They worked hard to ensure that my needs were met, even if we were financially less privileged. Through their actions, they taught me the value of hard work, financial stability, and paying one’s bills.

Appreciation for Basic Needs and the Importance of Kindness

The simple things my parents provided me with made me appreciate the basics in life. Many children are not as fortunate, lacking the stability and care that I experienced. For this, I am deeply grateful for my parents. While they were not perfect, they were highly regarded in the community, and their legacy continues in my mother, who celebrated her 100th birthday last week.

Conclusion: A Call for Kindness

My mother's kindness towards me, as all parents should treat their children, is something I hold dear. If all parents were to practice kindness, the world would be a happier place. There is no reason why children should have to experience sadness unnecessarily. Strive to be kind and empathetic, treating every individual with the respect and love they deserve. By doing so, we can create a more harmonious and supportive environment for all.