Reflections on My Beliefs: From Mythical Creatures to Fundamental Human Concepts

Throughout my life, I've had numerous beliefs that I held onto due to upbringing and education, but as I grew older, I started questioning many of them. This journey of self-discovery has led me to re-evaluate my views on not only mythical creatures and gender roles, but also the foundations of human relationships. Here are some of the beliefs I had and the realization that I've come to accept.

Mythical Creatures and Childhood Nonsense

As a child, I believed in the existence of Santa's elves, flying reindeer, ogres, unicorns, fairies, leprechauns, and even gods. These beliefs seemed so natural and comforting that I took them as truths. However, as I matured, I realized that these beliefs were nothing more than childish fantasies. They did not have any basis in reality. It was only later that I understood that believing in these fantastic creatures was merely a way for us to find comfort in a world that seemed large and complex.

The Power of Women and Gender Roles

Another belief I held onto for a long time was the idea that women were at the mercy of men. I thought that women’s empowerment required the acceptance and support of men, and that women needed to be protected and guided by them. This notion was deeply ingrained in my subconscious, perpetuated by societal norms and the media. However, halfway through my life, I began to question this belief. I realized that this idea was not only limiting but also incorrect. In reality, women possess a powerful influence over men, and this imbalance of power is an essential aspect of the world from a male perspective. It is a necessary dynamic that drives the societies in which we live.

Religious Beliefs and the Existence of God

As I delved deeper into my beliefs, I started questioning everything I had been told or learned, including the concept of a God or multiple gods. Initially, I held a strong belief in a Christian God, found in the Bible, and the story of a divine half-God, half-man sacrificed to ensure eternal life for believers and a backlash in hell for those who did not believe. However, as I grew older, I realized that these ideas were often based on opinions and guesswork, with no definitive proof of their existence. The existence of an all-powerful, all-knowing God is one I have not fully denied, but I have reached the conclusion that most of what I believed was based on assumptions and not on concrete evidence or research.

The Innocence of Religion and Mythical Creatures

Looking back, my belief in the innocence of religion and mythical creatures had a significant impact on my childhood and early adulthood. The idea that Santa Claus, fairies, and other mythical figures were pure and innocent was comforting. However, the realization that these were just stories or myths shed light on the complexities of the world and the importance of distinguishing between truth and imagination.

Friendship: A Helpful Myth Debunked

Another belief I held was that friendship meant unconditional support and loyalty. I believed that if a friend laughed at your jokes, degraded you, or failed to stand up for you, they were not your friend. This belief was solidified by the statement, “A boy’s best friend is his mom.” However, it turns out that this statement is more of a myth than a truth. Over time, I learned that friends are not always perfect, and disagreements and misunderstandings are part of any relationship. The notion that a friend should always be perfect or that the best friend is one’s mother is an oversimplification and a myth that has been debunked by reality.

While my beliefs have undergone significant changes, it is crucial to continue questioning our assumptions and beliefs. This process of self-discovery helps to build a more understanding, empathetic, and realistic worldview. It is essential to embrace the complexity of the world and the people in it, as this understanding can foster better relationships and a more genuine sense of self.