Reflections on Henry Golding Kiss Scene in ‘Monsoon’ and Malaysian Society
This article explores the nuanced opinions and attitudes towards the kiss scene involving Henry Golding and Parker Sawyers in the film Monsoon, as observed within Malaysian society, particularly among the Malay and Muslim populations. We delve into the varied perspectives and societal norms, emphasizing the complex interplay of cultural values, religious beliefs, and modernity.
The Kiss Scene in ‘Monsoon’
The recent Monsoon movie has sparked significant debate about its portrayal of LGBTQ content, especially among the Malay and Muslim populations in Malaysia. As a Malay and Muslim, I initially had reservations about the kiss scene. However, reflecting on it, I realized that the context of an acting scene and the entertainment value should be considered. The film was not an attempt to promote a political or social agenda but rather a form of artistic expression. The actors, including Henry Golding, portrayed the scene with minimal intention of endorsing LGBTQ relationships.
Understanding LGBTQ Rights in Malaysia
Some people assume that Australia, as a predominantly Western nation, is filled with homohobes and that LGBTQ rights are well-thought-out. However, this perception is often superficial and does not accurately reflect the situation in countries like Malaysia. The LGBTQ community in Malaysia has legal rights and protections, as any other citizen. Nevertheless, specific rights mandated by religious scriptures or cultural norms have not been granted. It is important to note that the LGBTQ community is not persecuted in Malaysia, but they do not have special legal privileges either.
Attitudes in Rural Malaysian Villages
I live in a rural village where conservatism and homophobia are often associated with a deep-seated fear of change. Despite these beliefs, I observed that the villagers, while religious and often conservative, are not violent or vindictive towards individuals who do not conform to social norms. They are more inclined to be accepting and supportive of individuals, especially when it comes to moral and spiritual issues. For example, during the opposition leader Anwar Ibrahim's public appearances and support, a community that is known for its conservative views turned out to be supportive and respectful. The same village that previously had strong homophobic attitudes provided compassionate services and support for a local homosexual who passed away, demonstrating a level of acceptance that defies stereotypes.
A common misconception is that the LGBTQ community in Malaysia is ostracized, but the reality is quite different. The attitude prevalent among Malaysians is one that avoids confrontation while adhering to social norms. The villagers might openly discuss their views on religious and cultural matters, but publicly questioning someone’s sexual orientation is frowned upon. This is further supported by the lack of harassment or discrimination against known LGBTQ individuals within the community. In fact, one of my fellow villagers who is openly LGBTQ owns a successful restaurant, and there has been no backlash or negative actions against her establishment due to her sexual orientation.
Social Norms and Cultural Values
The social norms in Malaysia are deeply influenced by religious and cultural values. The LGBTQ community often faces a combination of societal acceptance and taboos. While the law does not persecute LGBTQ individuals, discussions and public debates about sexual orientation are still considered sensitive topics. People in the village, like myself, might privately hold conservative views but tend to avoid disturbances or negative confrontations when it comes to addressing sensitive subjects. It is a matter of maintaining peace and harmony rather than enforcing a strict moral code.
To sum up, the kiss scene in Monsoon and the broader issue of LGBTQ rights in Malaysia highlight the complex interplay between cultural values, religious beliefs, and modern society. While some may have reservations, the prevailing attitude is one of acceptance and support, especially from a contextual standpoint. This understanding is crucial for fostering a more inclusive and progressive society in Malaysia.