Perceptions of Civilians and Veterans: A Balanced View
As a veteran, how do I view civilians, and do I think less of them for not serving?
The Perspective of a Veteran
From my perspective, as a veteran with firsthand experience of military service, it is neither appropriate nor accurate to look down on civilians simply because they have not served in the military. Each individual has their own path and choices in life, and such choices should not be judged solely based on military service.
The Importance of Adaptability and Integration
For veterans who struggle with civilians after their service, the issue often lies in the inability to adapt and integrate into civilian life. Military service, while demanding, can sometimes create challenges when transitioning back to civilian life. It is important to recognize that the ability to adapt and integrate is a skill that can be developed, and that veterans' experiences should be respected for what they are, rather than as a benchmark for societal judgment.
Respect and Admiration Beyond Military Service
My stance is that I don’t think less of civilians who have never served. Each person has their own path, and it’s important to respect their choices. Some individuals find the military to be the right path for them, while others opt for other career paths or personal choices. Personal character and actions should be the basis for respect, not the experiences that shaped them.
The Myth of the Perfect Veteran
There is a prevailing notion that being a veteran automatically makes one a better person. However, this is not accurate and oversimplifies the complexities of both military and civilian life. Just as not everyone can or wants to serve, not everyone is a great person simply because they have served. The quality of one's character comes from various experiences and decisions, not just from military service.
Veterans and Betrayal
Interpersonal relationships, whether in the military or civilian life, can sometimes experience betrayal. As a veteran, I have observed instances of both contempt and camaraderie. I have met many civilians who have earned my respect and admiration, irrespective of their military background. Conversely, I have also encountered betrayals among fellow veterans, highlighting that not all veterans are the same.
Conclusion: A Respectful and Inclusory Society
Ultimately, a society that values inclusivity and respect for individual choices is more balanced and fair. It's important to acknowledge that not everyone is meant to serve in the military, and that military service does not define a person's worth or potential. Both veterans and non-veterans contribute to society in unique ways, and it is essential to respect and appreciate these contributions.
As a veteran, my view is that each individual is different and has their own journey. It is crucial to focus on personal character, actions, and contributions, rather than making sweeping judgments based on service or lack thereof.