Navigating the Playing Field: How Life Plays Tricks on Us and the Choices We Make
Warm Greetings to fellow member of Family Human, Azam. I hope this message finds you and your loved ones in peace and good health. Azam, for a few moments, let's entertain the idea that you were born into this beautiful world as a Spiritual Fetus. This existence, filled with endless tests and trials, is a gradual process that grows you into a being of spirit. The responses you give to these countless events and decisions determine the quality of your spiritual life upon leaving this material world.
The Game of Life: A Function or a Play?
It's important to distinguish that life doesn't play; it simply is, as it is designed. We, as humans, play, often trying to force the design into a position that suits our desires. Life is a grand design, and we, as individuals, are the players who often try to bend it to our will. This idea might come as a shock, as many of us believe that life smashes us or that it smiles on us. However, it's much more precise: life either kicks you in the nuts or slaps you on the back. It's a simple equation.
The Toll of Honesty and Integrity
It's not always a pretty sight inside people, and speaking the truth isn't always a popularity move. In my experience, when you adhere to your principles, people who value these can connect with you, and those who don't, will indeed give you trouble. In my case, I've learned to be fine about these situations. I quit my job for a while because of sanctimonious assholes, but I emerged better than before. This experience brought me to a reorientation phase, a period where I wait for my mind to say 'ready go!'
This reorientation phase is not foreign to many of us. Throughout our lives, we go through various stages of change, and while it can be daunting, it typically heralds positive changes. It's a testament to the human spirit's resilience and adaptability.
The Path to Positivity: Integrity and Honesty
Life, in its essence, is all about decisions. The choices we make determine the quality of our lives. If you are a honest and diligent person, you tend to put yourself in situations where you are more likely to receive a slap on the back. Yes, life can still throw occasional kicks, but the frequency and intensity can be managed through integrity and honesty.
On the other hand, if you lie, cheat, and exploit others for personal gains, you run the risk of life dealing with you in the same coin. We all know people who act dishonestly but still seem to prosper. While I am not a strong believer in the concept of karma, the idea that what you put out into the world will come back to you in some form is a powerful reminder. It's much easier to look yourself in the mirror with a clear conscience when you choose to live a life of integrity.
The Takeaway: Making Conscious Choices
The message here is clear: life, designed as it is, gives us the opportunity to play by its rules—a complex game of chance and choice. By staying true to yourself, treating people and duties with respect, and acting honestly, you are more likely to attract positive outcomes. Conversely, any attempt to manipulate the system will ultimately have consequences. It's up to each of us to decide how we want to navigate this life playing field, and the outcome will depend on the choices we make.