Policy on Ghosting: Understanding and Moving On

Ghosting, the act of suddenly ceasing all forms of communication with a person, has become a point of contention in modern dating and relationships. In most cases, ghosting is considered a rude and immature behavior that is best avoided. However, understanding the different contexts and reasons behind ghosting, particularly in the case of twin flames and romantic souls, can offer insight and clarity in navigating such situations.

Ghosting: A Rude and Immature Behavior

In general, when someone is ghosted, especially if it is a pre-planned and purposeful action, it is often a hurtful and distressing experience. The absence of a clear and direct explanation adds to the sense of abandonment and rejection. Many dating coaches recommend avoiding and moving on from such individuals as they are generally considered emotionally unavailable and immature.

Understanding the Trigger

The first step in moving past the experience of being ghosted is to recognize that it triggers feelings and responses within you. It is important to acknowledge that this interaction has caused emotional turmoil because the person, by ghosting, has severed all forms of communication. This can be highly distressing and can lead to speculation and a lack of closure.

To manage these emotions, one can:

Journal your thoughts and feelings to understand the root of your emotions. Talk to a trusted friend or a professional to gain perspective. Seek understanding by writing down the experience and reflecting on it.

By taking these steps, you can better understand the trigger and move towards healing and closure.

Rare Cases: Twin Flames and Romantic Soulmates

While the majority of cases result in moving on, there are rare exceptions, such as cases involving twin flames and romantic soulmates. Twin flames are energetically connected individuals who are meant to be together. In such cases, ghosting can be a sign that the other person is experiencing emotional turmoil and does not want to formally end the relationship. However, such cases are very rare, and most people find themselves dating multiple people before meeting their romantic soulmate.

A romantic soulmate, on the other hand, is a person who is deeply intertwined with you in love and understanding. They do not typically ghost each other as their mutual connection is strong and stable.

Identifying Patterns and Understanding Narcissistic Behavior

For those who find themselves being ghosted frequently, it might be beneficial to explore deeper patterns of behavior and identify potential narcissistic traits in the ghoster. Several articles provide insights into the behaviors and mindsets of individuals who may be exhibiting such patterns. These include:

"7 Signs You May Be Texting a Narcissist" "10 Things That Upset a Narcissist" "4 Weird Eye Movements of a Narcissist" "4 Things a Narcissist NEVER Gets Over" "7 Ways to Confuse a Narcissist" "7 Traits of a Person Who Has an Evil Heart" "The 10 Things a Narcissist Can Never Give You" "These Are 8 Demonic Spirits Behind Narcissism" "10 Telltale Signs of Narcissistic Abuse Syndrome" "5 Signs You’re Not Healing after Narcissistic Abuse" "7 Reasons Why a Narcissist Doesn’t Love Their Children"

These resources can provide valuable insights into recognizing and dealing with potential narcissistic traits, which can be crucial in understanding why someone might choose to ghost.