Navigating the Benefits of Pretending: A Critical Analysis

This is a typical 'bone head' question. The term 'benefits' or 'beneficial' has a positive connotation, whereas 'pretending' denotes deception, phony, cosmetic facade, not genuine or real, and without sincerity. The point is, 'pretending' is never good! NEVER!

Common Misconceptions About Pretending

Some people get government jobs or other positions simply by pretending to be engaged in work. In the Indian internet sector, a large number of well-connected, high-status individuals get government jobs without any actual work or investment, with good salaries, to appear as if they are doing computer online work and investing in domains. They steal the data of hardworking individuals. To cover up the fraud, they slander the hardworking person, making up fake stories to destroy their reputation and life.

There is no benefit to pretending. Why would you want to? Be yourself. There is no reason to pretend.

The Pros and Cons of Pretending

Pretension may benefit one for a while, like keeping up a larger image, but in the long run, it is a losing proposition. It is like telling a lie that accrues immediate benefits but eventually turns out to be unprofitable. Pretension pampers one's ego, showing how one can hoodwink opponents or even friends temporarily. However, in the end, it can hurt more than it benefits.

Pretending can sometimes make one feel good for a day, but when reality sets in, it can hurt more than it helps. So, always be yourself, and you won't be disappointed!

Personal Reflections on Pretending

As an author, my novels serve as a form of pretending. I live a mostly isolated life, but in my books, I create a life filled with wealth, fancy cars, handsome men, and beautiful residences in areas that I yearn to live in. I feel no shame, and my pretend life is better than my actual life. However, I know reality from fiction. One day, I may not be able to separate the two, but I doubt that will happen because I will never see the luxuries mentioned in my books!

Conclusion

In conclusion, pretending may offer short-term advantages, such as maintaining a positive image or growth of ego, but it is ultimately detrimental in the long run. The benefits are often fleeting and can harm one's reputation and integrity. Instead, embrace authenticity and facing reality. It is through genuine experiences and authenticity that one truly thrives.