Navigating Romantic Signals: Should I Go On A Date With Someone Who Kicked Me Out?

A couple of weeks ago, this guy seemed to dismiss my advances, but now he’s suddenly interested, even going as far as kissing me after every message. What should I do?

Trust Your Instincts

Go for it if you’re intrigued by the possibility. However, be extremely careful both physically and emotionally. This situation could work out well, but it equally could be a trap. Always trust your instincts.

Options to Consider

End the Relationship Swiftly: If you believe this is his way of getting attention, cut ties immediately. Call him on the lie and move on. Play Hard to Get: If you think he’s attractive and willing to play the game, lure him by showing interest. Use this opportunity to your advantage, but remember, it’s just for the short term. Both of you are adults trying to get what you can. To Test or Not to Test: If you suspect he might be a bit clueless, treat him with cautious optimism while still being wary. If he’s testing you, make him work for your attention, just as you would expect him to work for yours.

The upside to the latter option is that there's a slim chance he might genuinely grow to like you. It's a double-edged sword, so be prepared for both scenarios.

Be Cautious

Be wary of his intentions. He might be playing a game, saving himself for someone better or worse. Alternatively, he may be a genuine guy, just not sure about his feelings. Give his intentions some time to clarify before you fully commit.

Seek Support

Find someone more stable and committed. This kind of uncertainty can be incredibly draining. Consider finding a partner who values commitment and mutual growth.

Do the Social Service: Kiss Him Back

While it might seem polite and normal for a mother to kiss her child, it’s also important to acknowledge that people have different expectations. If he’s showing physical affection, reciprocate. Your social interaction can set the tone for how he perceives the relationship.

Remember, it's important to use common sense and protect yourself emotionally and physically. Everything else is just a reflection of your personal boundaries and the kind of relationship you’re comfortable with.