Navigating Pedophilia: A Guide for Those Who Feel Different

If you are aware of your thoughts or feelings but have not acted on them, you are not alone. Many individuals share similar experiences, and there is support available to help navigate these thoughts and feelings healthily and ethically.

Understanding Personal Struggles

It is not uncommon for individuals to experience attractions that do not align with typical societal norms. Whether you are a 26-year-old male identifying as a pedophile or have similar experiences, it is essential to:

Recognize that your feelings are not under your control Seek safe and constructive spaces to discuss and process these thoughts Understand the legality and accept your limitations Consider professional help if needed

Safe Online Support Groups

There are several online support groups dedicated to helping individuals cope with unwanted thoughts and feelings. Two prominent forums are:

MAP Support Club

MAP Support Club is a chat room-based platform with age requirements. It permits teenagers with appropriate oversight and is suitable for those over 18. This forum has been monitored and deemed beneficial by mental health professionals, law enforcement, and journalists.

VirPed

VirPed is a message board-based platform with a minimum age requirement of 18. It permits journalists and researchers to observe but not participate. This forum is also monitored and has been deemed pro-social by various parties.

Both forums offer a supportive environment for individuals to discuss their feelings and challenges. They also help individuals understand that they are not alone in their struggles.

Mindfulness and Professional Help

It’s important to:

Love yourself and find an adult who can love you in return Remember that the legal age for sexual activity is typically 16 in most countries Seek professional help through therapy referrals for non-offending pedophiles (MAPs) Consider SwiftStream, a program that provides a sexuality consultant who understands your challenges Avoid stigmatization and self-blame, as these can be counter-productive Understand and respect personal limitations to avoid situations that are beyond your coping ability

By using these resources and taking a proactive approach, individuals can manage their attractions and feelings in a healthy manner.

Remember, it is important to seek help and support, and there are resources and communities available to you. Don’t hesitate to reach out for the support you need.