Navigating Life in Amsterdam: A Guide for 13-Year-Olds and Their Families

Living in Amsterdam can be both exciting and challenging, especially for a 13-year-old like me. As I prepare to move with my family from Atlanta, GA to Amsterdam, Netherlands, I’ve been curious about what life is like for a young girl my age. This article aims to provide a comprehensive overview of the educational, social, and cultural landscape of Amsterdam, along with advice for dealing with the logistical challenges of relocation.

Education and Daily Life for a 13-Year-Old in Amsterdam

For a 13-year-old, the school year in Amsterdam is quite full on. The first year of secondary education, or VMBO in Dutch, is a rigorous period that requires around 28-30 hours of class time per week. Additionally, you can expect another 10-15 hours of homework. If you decide to take Dutch classes, you might need to add extra hours to your schedule.

Co-curricular activities such as sports and cultural endeavors like playing an instrument are also common. These activities typically take up an afternoon or two each week, giving you a balanced mix of structured and free time. You might also find time for social activities with friends, which can be a great way to unwind and have fun.

Looking ahead, you might start exploring work opportunities around age 15-16, such as working at a supermarket or in a café for about 10 hours a week. Gaining work experience can be both practical and valuable as you start to shape your future career goals.

Relocating to Amsterdam: A Comprehensive Guide

One of the first questions many people ask about moving to Amsterdam is: How can I do it? Well, unless you are a European Union (EU) citizen, the process can be a bit more complex. As both a non-EU citizen and an American, I understand the challenges better than most.

If you're a non-EU citizen, you can visit the Schengen region (which includes the Netherlands) for up to 90 days in any 180-day period, though you can't work without a visa. For those hoping to live and work in Amsterdam, you'll need to obtain sponsorship through a university, company, or other organization, or apply for a visa through IND (Netherlands Immigration and Naturalisation Service). If you're an entrepreneur, you may also be eligible for a Dutch visa.

Our family's journey began with my husband receiving an offer to work in Amsterdam as a highly skilled migrant after completing his Ph.D. Our initial move was relatively smooth due to his sponsorship. However, when our visa was about to expire, finding sponsorship became increasingly difficult, leading us to take on a job in Paris. Eventually, we moved back to the Netherlands due to the lack of available sponsorship opportunities, demonstrating the challenges in obtaining the necessary support.

What Makes Amsterdam Special for a 13-Year-Old

While Amsterdam is a stunning city, it's important to know what makes it unique. The city is known for its blend of traditional and modern, offering a disproportionate level of internationalism compared to other Dutch cities. As a result, English is widely spoken, which is a significant relief for non-native Dutch speakers like myself.

The city's amazing canals, fantastic museums, and numerous festivals make it a hub of culture. On any given day, there are events happening, whether related to art or simply enjoying a concert. This vibrant cultural scene ensures that the city never feels dull, even for someone as young as me.

While I miss certain aspects of the U.S. work culture, such as the emphasis on customer service and convenient 24/7 access, Amsterdam's unique blend of efficiency and pragmatism sets it apart. However, be prepared to make some adjustments, such as managing schedules within specific hours and dealing with the Dutch approach to privacy and modesty.

Cost of Living in Amsterdam

One of the most significant challenges in Amsterdam is the high cost of living, especially as an expat. Apartments are generally expensive, often starting at 600 euros for a room or 1,250 euros for a flat. Street markets are available, but a more budget-conscious approach to dining is necessary. shop at Albert Heijn and use your budget wisely.

It's essential to be aware of Dutch holidays, as businesses and services may be closed or have limited hours. The housing market is particularly challenging, with prices increasing due to speculative investment, making it difficult for young couples to find affordable housing.

Conclusion

While moving to Amsterdam presents numerous challenges, it also offers a unique lifestyle that can be both rewarding and enriching. Despite the high cost of living and the need to navigate complex sponsorship processes, the city's vibrant culture, efficient administration, and international flavor make it a compelling destination for those seeking a new beginning.