How to Master the Art of Normal Speech and Genuine Friendship

As someone who struggled with speech as a child, and found genuine friendship later in life, I can share valuable insights on how to speak and communicate more effectively. This article will guide you through the steps to master normal speech and the essence of genuine friendship.

Understanding Normal Speech

Struggles with Speech in Childhood

I faced challenges with my speech as a child. At the age of four, I spoke in a way that others found hard to understand. I even had to undergo speech therapy to address the issue. High volume speaking can aid understanding, but there’s more to achieving normal speech than just volume.

Improving your pronunciation is crucial. It not only makes your speech clearer but also helps establish a better connection with others. Additionally, speaking grammatically correct speech is highly effective in ensuring that others understand you.

Establishing Understanding for Normal Communication

An 'ordinary' human being can be defined as someone who can effectively establish understanding in everyday interactions. For example, ordering food at a restaurant. If you can make yourself understood in such simple yet essential tasks, you are considered to communicate normally.

Developing Genuine Friendship

Friendship can be challenging, especially if you’ve never had friends before. Jack, my best friend, was instrumental in teaching me how to develop genuine connections. Initially, he simply started walking and talking, and I had to learn from him.

Here are some key steps to help you build meaningful friendships:

Understanding an Ordinary Human Being

Most people are ordinary in their own way. Unless you engage in illegal or dangerous behaviors, you can be considered ordinary.

Basic Communication Skills

Don’t shout - Maintain a moderate and clear volume that helps others understand you. Know your subject - Be knowledgeable about the topics you discuss with others. This will help in building a rapport. Listen actively - Pay attention to others and be responsive to their input. This encourages healthy dialogue. Relax and be pleasant - A relaxed and friendly demeanor can make a significant difference in how others perceive you. Smile - A smile can go a long way in making people feel comfortable around you.

Effective Communication Through Body Language

To truly connect with someone, understanding and using body language effectively is key. Meeting someone face to face is often the most effective way to communicate. Your body language, such as your stance, posture, and facial expressions, can convey a lot of information without uttering a single word.

Speaking Like a Normal Human Being

Be Yourself

The most important aspect of speaking normally is to be yourself. Everyone has a unique voice and way of speaking, and that's what makes you unique.

Try experimenting with different pitches, but avoid changing your temperament. If you have breathing issues, consider adjusting your position near the microphone. Using techniques from Old Day Artists can also help, such as finding a comfortable standing or sitting posture that complements your breathing.