Honoring Veterans: A Personal Reflection on What Matters Most
Veterans Day is more than just a holiday—it's a time for reflection and gratitude towards those who have served in our military. In this article, we explore the stories of veterans from different backgrounds and experiences, sharing what they cherish and what truly matters to them on this special day.
A Tribute to Charles Wayne Evans and Bob Fitta
Military service often involves a complicated hierarchy, and respect for rank is a foundational element of the service. Charles Wayne Evans, a retired USAF member, stands as a testament to this. His cousin, Bob Fitta, weaves a significant part of his service career. They both reached the rank of Gunnery Sergeant, while Fitta went on to the Warrant Officer program and Evans stayed as an enlisted Master Sergeant. In their company, mutual respect for ranks was always prevalent. My experience with Bob and Charlie reinforced the importance of recognizing and appreciating each other's contributions and sacrifices in the military.
A Personal Connection to Veterans Day
The gratitude for service is often deeply personal. For me, Veterans Day takes on a more profound significance. I have worked closely with the military for many years, and my interactions with military veterans have been heartfelt. One such friend, who served in Vietnam, passed away due to the long-lasting health issues from his service. Reflecting on his service and his illness, I find it more fitting to express my gratitude through my actions and words.
The Passing of Sergeant Henry Nicholas John Gunther
It is heart-wrenching to think about the ultimate sacrifice of a young soldier. Sergeant Henry Nicholas John Gunther, a U.S. Soldier killed in action on 11/11/2018, one minute before the Armistice took effect at Chaumont-devant-Damvillers, Meuse, France, embodies this sentiment. His story adds a layer of poignancy to the significance of Veterans Day. Instead of wishing him a ‘happy’ Veterans Day after his passing, it is more meaningful to remember his sacrifice and honor his memory with respect.
A Personal Battle in VietNam
Reflecting on my own military service in VietNam, the impact of war on individuals is profound and often lifelong. I found myself in situations where I witnessed events that no one should ever have to see. My nine months in the infantry were filled with unbearable misery and loss. Witnessing friends die and having my own life altered forever have cast a long shadow on Veterans Day for me. The phrase "Happy Veterans Day" feels misplaced in the face of such experiences.
A Call for Understanding
The sentiment of a "Happy Veterans Day" is not universally applicable. Many service members and veterans find the day bittersweet, filled with both gratitude and somber reflections. Bob Murphy, who shared this perspective, aptly reminded me of the importance of walking in others' shoes. His statement: 'even 1/2 a day,' underscores the need for empathy and understanding in recognizing the complex emotions and experiences of those who serve.
Ultimately, Veterans Day is a day to remember and honor the spirit of those who have served, their sacrifices, and the impact of their experiences on their lives. Whether with a tribute, a story, or a heartfelt expression of gratitude, the true spirit of Veterans Day is to ensure that their service is never forgotten.