Introduction

Grandparents play a vital role in our lives. They are custodians of cherished tales, bearers of profound wisdom, and sources of unwavering affection. In this article, we celebrate the enchanting grandmother who held a special place in the heart of the author. Through her, we explore the profound impact grandparents can have on our lives and how their stories and traditions continue to enrich us even after they are gone.

The Enchanted House of My Maternal Great-Grandmother

Let us delve into the life of Rose, the enchanting woman who embraced rose-scented life with the warmth and wisdom of her heritage. Her influence was felt in every aspect of her life, from her unique aroma to the stories she told to her grandchildren.

Smell of Home

Rose's aroma was as much a part of her as her clean-countenance. Unlike many, she never wore underarm deodorant. Each day, she would take two drops from a bottle of rose-scented liquid, rub it on her wrist, and inhale deeply. This ritual was not just about hygiene; it was a ritual that connected her to her roots. She would often say, with a gentle smile and a hint of a Portuguese accent, 'This is the smell of where I came from. It helps me remember where I belong. My mother and father are waiting for me at the mouth of my home.'

Her Romanian Influence

Not only did Rose’s scent remind her of her heritage, but her traditions did the same. The rose oil came from San Juan, Puerto Rico, from families that had not forgotten her. This connection to her ancestors was as strong as her beloved rose-scented liquid, a symbol of her unbreakable bond with her origins.

Lessons and Wisdom

As a child, the author was always taught to listen to her grandmother’s wisdom, believing that these teachings could one day save her. Rose’s voice held the weight of experience, and her stories were like grand adventures. She would often pause and speak in an intriguing manner, leaving the children in suspense, only to end with the words, "Next time." While this may have piqued their curiosity, it also instilled patience and respect for the elders' teachings. Rose’s wisdom was not just about the past; she also used her stories to impart values that would shape her grandchildren's future.

The Importance of Silence and Listening

Her influence went beyond the spoken word. Rose taught the value of silence and listening. She spoke of a time when the children were treated with the ethos, "Children should be seen and not heard." However, her wisdom laid the foundation for a different approach. Instead of silencing the young, she encouraged them to observe and listen. She explained that understanding the world requires patience and the ability to absorb new knowledge. Rose’s stories were evidence of this, as they offered insights into the past, which could enlighten the future.

Rose’s Appearance and Heritage

Rose’s appearance reflected her heritage as much as her words did. With fair skin and hair the color of milk, slightly tinged with green, she stood out as a symbol of beauty and heritage. Her stories often touched upon the importance of why and how things were done, painting a vivid picture of her people's traditions. These tales, shared with the younger generation, ensured that the legacy of her family lived on.

Conclusion

The author’s grandmother, Rose, left a lasting impact on her life through her wisdom, her teachings, and her unique aroma. Her stories, rituals, and presence continue to inspire and guide her today. Her memory remains a cherished and precious memory, reminding us of the importance of honoring and preserving family traditions and wisdom. If you ever see your grandmother crossing the street, pause and remember her. Let us cherish the lessons and legacies that our grandparents impart, for they are the treasures that fill our lives with meaning and joy.

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