Reflections on Adolescent Crushes: From Michael Hutchence to Modern Musicians

Every generation has its icons, and every teenager has its crushes. As I reflect on my own journey, I realize that

My Nostalgic Teenage Crush for Michael Hutchence

Back in the early 1990s, during years, Michael Hutchence and the band INXS were the darlings of the music industry. My relationship with Michael is one that spans several decades, but it remains rooted in those teenage years. It began innocently enough, growing from a simple admiration to a full-blown crush that influenced my perceptions of him for years to come.

Sharon, my high school best friend, and I were given the incredible opportunity to meet Michael and the rest of INXS during the recording of their album Kick. This album would go on to be their most successful, a fact that was not immediately apparent to us as we were engrossed in our meetings with the band. Michael was impressive, not just in his charisma but also in his impeccable taste in style.

The Encounter and Bonding

During our first encounter with Michael, he asked for my name. I was so star-struck that I completely blanked out, only to stammer out “Becca” after an anxiety-inducing pause. Michael, ever the charming individual, took the moment in stride and called me by my nickname, Becca. This gesture was the beginning of our somewhat informal friendship. Every time we would meet, Michael would always greet me with a big bear hug and a playful, familiar “Heeyy Becca.” It was the embodiment of teenage admiration, and it was quite endearing.

The Passing of Time and the Ill Fated Dream

As the years went by, my infatuation with Michael remained. However, I’ve never allowed it to consume me. I was still a fan of INXS, but I had grown up, and my admiration shifted from a teenage crush to a mature fan’s appreciation for the music. Sadly, Michael’s death in 1997 hit me hard. It was the day he was scheduled to rehearse with INXS, the very tour that trailed the success of Kick. It was a fateful day, and it marked the end of the era of INXS and Michael that I so adored.

The Modern World of Crushes

Fast forward to today, and the landscape of crushes has changed drastically. From Michael Hutchence to modern musicians like Travis Barker from Sum 41, I don’t gaga over any individual. I had a crush on Travis, but it was far from obsessive. My fascination with him stemmed from his unique look and the type of person he seemed to be. Travis’ spikey hair, surf-inspired ghoul look, and the infectious energy he brought to music influenced my admiration.

Exploring Different Types of Crushes

My teenage self was infatuated with just about anyone who caught my eye, from Joelyn Generation boys (Pharrell Williams from The Neptunes) to Kurt Cobain-style rock stars. I appreciated the bohemian skater punk look and charisma that many of these musicians exuded. I enjoyed the adventurous and carefree vibes that came with being a fan of these artists. However, as I grew older, I became more discerning about my crushes. I now appreciate the physical traits and the charm that draw me to certain individuals rather than the fame or the buzz around their personal lives.

Conclusion and Reflection

Crushes and fandoms are a natural part of growing up. While some infatuations lead to passionate but unhealthy obsessions, others become meaningful connections with people and their art. Crushes can become a way to explore different aspects of personality and express admiration for the things that hold genuine value in our lives.

Looking back, I realize that my relationship with both Michael and the musicians I admire today is one of respect and admiration. I may notечно...