Gifts of the Unexpected and the Unforgettable
What could be a more unexpected gift than a life saving medical procedure? This year, as I approached my birthday, the universe had other plans. Two days before my appointment for an MRI on my right knee, I was diagnosed with a blood clot. The next day, at the urgent care, more tests confirmed another disaster as I entered menopause with irregular and mysterious pain. By the following day, I was in the hospital, sedated, and had a vena cava filter placed to prevent the clot from traveling to my heart. Additional tests were conducted, which revealed the possibility of cancer, but two operations later, the clot was successfully dissolved. This was truly an amazing gift, not only for my health but also for the unexpected life that these medical interventions granted me.
Every Gift is Special, in Its Own Way
While my son bought me an eye-catching Lego set of my favorite cartoon character, which I lovingly set together, my dear husband surprised me with a purse from a line I have always admired. Another friend sent me a beautiful bouquet of flowers that cheerfully brightened my day. I received a cookbook, a fancy water bottle, and a pouch for travel items and clothing. Additionally, a few friends took me out to a lovely dinner. Some days, all you need is acknowledgement, and sometimes it’s wonderful to know that people remember the little things that make you smile. At my current age, I'm simply happy when my friends express that they care on my birthday.
Sometimes, the Gift is the Company Itself
One year, my friends overseas called me on my birthday, sending well-wishes without any gifts, but that was fine with me. Instead, I spent my birthday with my loyal dog, Bluey, at the beach, enjoying a day of sunshine and ocean breezes. We had our fish and chips, and celebrated each other's company. This was a beautiful reminder that sometimes, the most meaningful gifts are those that come from the memories and moments shared with loved ones.
Other times, the most memorable birthday is spent in good company and great spirits. Last year, my girlfriend dressed me up and we attended a party. The atmosphere was wild and fun, which is typical when there is an influx of pot and alcohol. However, it didn't matter that I didn't partake in any of the substances, as being with good friends and good people is a gift in itself. In the end, it turned out to be a fantastic birthday celebration, filled with laughter, music, and camaraderie.
Conclusion
A gift can be anything from a vena cava filter to a Lego set, a purse, flowers, a cookbook, or simply spending time with loved ones. It’s about the memories, the feelings, and the love that these moments bring into our lives. May you find joy and meaningfulness in the gifts that you receive and the days you celebrate, no matter the form they take.