From Racist to Inclusion: My Journey of Understanding and Love
As a child, I lived with my Unitarian grandmother who was intensely against racism and taught me to regard all humans as my 'brothers and sisters.' Despite her influence, my teenage years were fraught with indifference towards the struggles of Black Americans until a significant shift occurred in my life. After graduating from high school, I worked in a blue-collar occupation and was introduced to the realities of racism through the stories of my fellow black co-workers.
The Impact of the Civil Rights Movement and Diverse Los Angeles
My perspective began to change during the height of the civil rights movement in the 1960s. Living in a highly diverse area of Los Angeles, where I was exposed to a vibrant community, was pivotal. The live and let live vibe, as well as seeing the acceptance of out and proud individuals, made an indelible mark on me. This environment fostered an open-minded approach to diversity and welcomed new perspectives.
The Power of Solidarity and Organizing Unions
My involvement in organizing unions proved to be another crucial turning point. In such a diverse workplace, having prejudiced views would hinder unity and collaboration. The slogan 'An Injury to One is An Injury to All' became a guiding principle. I realized that supporting my colleagues against discrimination and harassment was essential for true solidarity. This reinforced my commitment to fighting against any form of bias and prejudice.
The Transition from Racist to Embracing Diversity
Along with deepening my understanding of social justice, I also underwent a personal transformation. There was a period where I was exceedingly racist. However, I eventually left behind the prejudices I held and made friends with Middle Eastern immigrant boys. This change was profound, as I discovered the beauty of Arabic food, the allure of exotic individuals, and a wealth of political perspectives that were alien to my previous worldview.
The Transformative Power of Travel and Friendship
Traveling and making friends across borders and through different ethnic groups was another major turning point. Exposure to diverse cultures broadened my horizons and dispelled my preconceived notions. For instance, I came to appreciate the architectural styles, cuisine, and art forms of various cultures. The taste of spices from the East, the beauty of foreign scripts, and the melodies of foreign songs all contributed to my evolving perspective. Interacting and falling in love with women from other continents further solidified my rejection of racism.
By the age of 22, I was married to a woman from a different culture and race, who was mixed herself. My first child was a daughter, who looked like me but a little darker, with a tan glow. She became a symbol of inclusivity and love. The moment I held her in my arms, my childhood bigotry dissipated completely, replaced by a deep love and understanding of diversity.