Embracing Your Partner's Passion for Dance: A Guide for Dancer and Non-Dancer Partners
Let's say your significant other loves to dance. While out on a weekend, they see a dancer that moves like something they've never seen before. Would you be okay with your significant other if they want to dance with the amazing dancer?
Of course, I’m not an insecure person. I trust my partner to not do anything that would harm our relationship. I want them to enjoy themselves, and if they love dancing, that’s fantastic. I’m just fine with my partner dancing with other people, provided they are respectful and not ignoring me for long periods. If they were to completely ignore me while dancing and flirting with just one person, I would certainly speak to them about it. But in general, dancing is just fine.
Be Okay with It
Instead of being insecure, encourage your partner.
Shit baby, look at that guy's moves. Ain't that impressive? Wouldn’t you just love to ask him for a dance? Go for it! I'll be right here. Have fun. I would watch because watching people do what they love to do can be incredibly entertaining. By watching, and ensuring that everyone is respectful, you can enjoy the moment.
And afterwards, why not get everyone a drink? It’s a nice gesture and a great way to celebrate the shared experience, whether you're a dancer or not.
Understanding the Joy of Partner Dancing
Dance is a communal act, and dancing with a new partner can be incredibly fun and exciting. As a dancer, being able to dance with someone who brings a new and fresh experience is exhilarating. Similarly, as a non-dancer, your willingness to support your partner in this can strengthen your bond and bring you closer together.
Allowing your partner to dance with anyone they want is a non-negotiable, and it should be the same for them. One of the best things about partner dancing is that it offers a fun and friendly way to connect with others without the pressure of forming a deeper romantic connection. Most dance communities are about the thrill of the exchange in the dance, not hooking up with other dancers. Supporting your partner’s passion for dance can lead to a more enjoyable and fulfilling relationship.
If everyone involved is respectful, there's little to worry about. Not being threatened by other people's dancing ability, nor assuming that dancing together leads to anything more, is key. Dancing together can be a completely platonic and enjoyable experience, and embracing this can lead to a much healthier and happier relationship for both you and your partner.