Embarrassing Moments in the Hospital: Views from a Stoic
I recently had a prostate ultrasound and biopsy, which brought back some uncomfortable memories for me. Despite my Stoic philosophy, life still finds ways to embarrass me. You see, I was sedated during the procedure, and when I woke up, I didn’t notice something until it was too late – my gown had risen above my waist.
One of the nurses had managed to move the blankets slightly, exposing my genitals. My hands quickly went under the blankets, and I pushed my penis down. Moments like these might not be the most embarrassing for everyone, but as a 56-year-old man who is still a virgin, it adds an extra layer of awkwardness.
As a stoic, I’ve had my fair share of uncomfortable situations. Being naked with nurses or undergoing medical tests have become a part of my life. However, the one thing that still makes me uncomfortable is not related to the hospital at all, but rather a minor surgical procedure at my local dermatologist.
Back in the day, I had an anal skin tag, and after living with it for years, I finally decided to have it removed. The doctor and a nurse were involved in the procedure, and I was told to strip completely. I had to lie face down with my legs spread wide, and the nurse held my cheeks apart while the doctor administered painful shots right at the anal rim.
Once the numbing took effect, the doctor made the final incision and removed the skin tag. However, the worst part came when they sealed the wound with heat. The smell of a burnt anus permeated the room, making it hard not to feel embarrassed and uncomfortable. The irony of being in a medical setting where everyone is supposed to be focused on your well-being, yet the room smells like someone has been grilling you, is quite surreal.
Back at the hospital, I am just a body – nothing more, nothing less. Medical professionals get to see me in every conceivable position and situation, and to them, it’s all just part of their job. Therefore, embarrassment is somewhat diluted in such a clinical environment. However, personal feelings of vulnerability and discomfort still exist.
Embracing Stoicism does not mean I will never feel embarrassment; it means I can acknowledge these feelings and continue to move forward. Healthcare providers and staff can help by ensuring privacy and dignity are maintained, even in situations that might be sensitive or awkward.
In conclusion, while stoicism can provide a philosophical framework for dealing with life's challenges, even Stoics can be caught off guard by situations that bring about embarrassment. It is the combination of careful medical professionalism and an understanding of human emotions that can make even the most trying experiences more bearable.
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