Defending Chanyeol's Right to Happiness: An Open Letter to His Critics

As a fan and supporter of Chanyeol EXO, I am deeply concerned about the recent backlash and criticism he has faced. The outpouring of anger and misinformation is simply unacceptable, and it is imperative that we discuss the issue with more maturity and understanding.

Chanyeol's Just Deserts

Apart from those who passionately support him, some fans have been calling Chanyeol a sweetheart and angel, and praising him for taking responsibility. Yet, there are still many who have questioned his every move, particularly his decision to marry and start a family. Let's take a moment to discuss the root of these concerns.

It's important to recognize that while Chanyeol is an idol, his personal happiness and life choices are his to make. Just because he is in the public eye, it doesn't mean that he has to justify his decisions to everyone. As living, breathing human beings, idols have the right to seek their own happiness, in the same way that we all do.

Misogyny in Fan Culture

Some fans have expressed that idols shouldn't date or marry, often under the guise that it is part of their jobs to entertain the audience. However, this line of thinking is deeply problematic and rooted in gender stereotypes and misogyny. Idols, like anyone else, have the right to love and be loved. They have personal lives and private choices, just as we do. In fact, their ability to balance their public and private lives is part of what makes them relatable and distinct.

There is a narrative, often perpetuated by excessive fan behavior, that idols are owned by their fans and cannot make their own decisions. This is a false and harmful notion that diminishes the autonomy and humanity of idols. When idols are reviled for their personal choices, it serves to dehumanize them and reinforces the idea that their happiness is not as important as the satisfaction of their fans.

It is equally troubling when fans demand that an idol leave a group just because they are making personal life decisions. A vocal legend like Chanyeol, with an extraordinary talent and presence, deserves to be respected for his choices, not to be subjected to such pressures.

The Love of Exo-ls

Exo-linear support has always been unwavering, and we as fans take pride in our idol's achievements. Chanyeol's decision to marry and have a child has been met with mixed reactions, but the overwhelming support from fans is clear. Just as he wants the best for us, we want the best for him.

Exo-ls understand that Chanyeol is a boyfriend, a father, and a human being. We know that he is capable of making his own choices and that his happiness brings joy to us. As members of the same fandom, we must support and respect one another’s choices, whether in career or personal life.

A Call to Ask for Apologies

While it is understandable to feel upset when a cherished idol's happiness is questioned, it is not productive or fair to demand that Chanyeol apologize for things he has done that did not necessarily warrant an apology. Should he have to justify his decision to get married and start a family? Absolutely not.

Instead, those who have criticized him should ask themselves whether they would feel the same way if the roles were reversed. Would they be able to accept a fellow fan's personal decisions with the same ease and understanding?

Let's be the supportive and understanding community that Chanyeol and the rest of EXO deserve. We must continue to fight for the rights and happiness of our idols, and for the love and respect they deserve from their fans.

Chanyeol, we are one, and we support you. You are loved, and you are happy, which does not make you less of an idol – it makes you more. Saranghae!