Beyond ‘Thank You for Your Service’: Meaningful Ways to Acknowledge Veterans

While it is common to hear the phrase ‘thank you for your service’ directed toward veterans, this phrase may not always resonate with those who have served. There are more fitting expressions that can convey true appreciation for the sacrifices made. This article explores the nuances of veteran acknowledgment, emphasizing the significance of 'sacrifice' as a more fitting term. We will also delve into the perspectives of different veterans, showcasing why certain phrases hold more meaning.

Understanding Veteran Acknowledgment

Veterans are not always looking for personal accolades or gratitude. They are often more appreciative of recognition for the sacrifices they and their fellow service members made. The term 'service' can sometimes fall short of capturing the depth and breadth of what veterans have given up—be it their youth, health, or even lives. For many veterans, the word that truly encapsulates their experience is 'sacrifice.'

The Importance of 'Sacrifice' in Veteran Acknowledgment

All veterans, whether drafted or volunteered, understand what it truly means to sacrifice. This may include giving up their freedom, health, youth, and even life in extreme cases. For example, a draft veteran like retired Navy member John Anderson sacrificed his youth, freedom, and innocence, as well as parts of his body during his service. Similarly, three of his buddies made the ultimate sacrifice.

John emphasizes, 'I do not wish to be reminded of that “service.” But there is not one single day - never has been, never will be - I forget the sacrifices.' His sentiment is echoed by many veterans who understand that their service is deeply intertwined with the sacrifices they and others made. Therefore, a phrase that includes the word 'sacrifice' can be more meaningful for veterans.

A phrase like, 'Thank you for serving our country and all the sacrifices you had to make during your time in service,' is more likely to resonate with veterans, as it acknowledges their broader experience and the depth of their commitment.

Veteran Perspectives on Acknowledgment

Some veterans are of the opinion that the phrase 'thank you for your service' is perfect. Army retiree Sarah Thompson shares, 'I retired after 21 years in the Army, and I consider it my honor to serve this wonderful country.'

However, others feel that phrases like 'thank you for your sacrifice' better capture the essence of their experience. Retired Navy member Michael Turner shares, 'Thank you for your service is perfect. I retired after 21 years in the Army, and I it was my honor to serve this wonderful country.' Yet for Turner, he would prefer 'Thank you for your sacrifice,' as it directly acknowledges the sacrifices made.

Alongside this, some veterans feel that direct acknowledgment might not always be necessary. Alfred Hickenbacher suggests, 'Say nothing. As for myself, just keep walking and don't say shit because I don't want to hear it.' Hickenbacher's perspective highlights the complex emotional landscape many veterans experience and the individual preference for how their service is acknowledged.

Private Joe Doe, a junior officer in the Navy during the 1970s and 80s, elaborates on his motivations: 'I joined for many reasons—college NROTC scholarship to Notre Dame, a sense of duty, and personal reasons. Some were selfish, and some were not. However, I understand that each veteran's journey and motivations are personal to them, and the focus should be on acknowledgment for the sacrifices rather than the service itself.'

Conclusion

Acknowledging veterans' sacrifices is crucial but can be done in various ways, with the term 'sacrifice' often being the most meaningful. Veterans know that service is just one aspect of their experience. Their willingness to sacrifice their youth, health, and sometimes even their lives is what makes their service stand out. By recognizing their sacrifices, we can better honor the true essence of their commitment to their country and fellow citizens.