Are You Recovering from Realizing You Are an INFJ?

Recently, I took an MBTI test months ago expecting to identify as an ISTJ。 However, the results didn't quite resonate with me. Most articles about ISTJ didn't quite fit me, except for those common introverted traits I've always known.

The BIG Reveal

Then, just a week ago, I took another test and discovered that my personality type is actually the INFJ. I couldn't help but exclaim, "Okay, let's see what an INFJ is on Quora."

And oh boy, did I feel exposed. The descriptions of an INFJ were astonishingly accurate about my true colors. I've never been so identified—so exposed.

Recognizing Myself

The more I read about INFJ traits, the more I saw myself. The facts resonated deeply, and it was a mix of familiarity and discomfort. It’s like peeling back the layers of your identity to find yourself reflected in a mirror that doesn’t distort your essence but magnifies it in all its complexity.

There are the intuitive insights, the feeling of understanding, the judgment of the world, and the perceiving of information. I need to think deeply, yet I don’t always express my thoughts clearly to those around me. The feeling of deep empathy and the tendency to see the underlying meanings of situations are traits I've often found solace in, and now, it's a part of me that can no longer be ignored.

Embracing the Change

Initially, realizing I'm an INFJ was a moment of fear and self-doubt. The perfect match of the descriptions made me question everything about myself. I couldn't help but laugh at the absurdity of the situation and then lash out at being so dauntingly well-understood.

However, as the days passed, I've started to embrace this newfound awareness. Understanding that INFJ is not my destiny but a tool for personal growth, I began to see how I could work with these traits to make positive changes in my life.

Like many INFJs, I often find myself struggling with perfectionism. There's a part of me that wants to be the best at everything, and when I fall short, I feel like a failure. But now, I'm learning to accept that perfection is a pursuit, not an achievement, and that every step forward, no matter how small, is a success.

The Journey to Betterment

I'm focusing on improving my communication skills, a challenge that many INFJs face. It’s not that I don’t want to connect with people; it’s more about finding the right words to express my thoughts and emotions. I’m also working on balancing my perfectionism with realistic goals and expectations.

Understanding my personality type is like receiving a map to my subconscious. It guides me on my journey, helping me navigate the intricate terrain of my mind and heart. As someone who values introspection and empathy, being an INFJ gives me the knowledge to grow in areas I may have previously overlooked.

Final Thoughts

So, are you an INFJ? Are you realizing that your true colors have been described so well? The journey of self-discovery can be daunting, but it’s also incredibly rewarding. Embrace who you are, learn from your traits, and use that knowledge to become the best version of yourself.

Remember, every personality type has its strengths and challenges. Whether you are an INFJ, an ENFP, an INTJ, or any other MBTI type, there is always room for personal growth and self-improvement.