An Honest Perspective on Alcohol: Reflecting on Traditions and Moderation

When it comes to alcohol, my personal view more or less aligns with the Catholic Church's stance. While I acknowledge that alcoholic beverages can be enjoyed responsibly, I believe that getting drunk is a serious matter. This perspective is not unlike the Church's position, but there's more nuance to it than one might initially think.

The Case for Moderation

While the Church certainly doesn't condone getting intoxicated, I have a more flexible view when it comes to occasional, controlled celebrations. The Christian calendar includes festivals like Carnival, where a moderate amount of drinking is part of the tradition. However, such festivities are typically surrounded by a supportive and welcoming environment, ensuring that no harm befalls the participants.

Controlled Environments Are Key

I firmly believe that drinking excessively should not be tolerated unless it is done in a controlled setting. Imagine attending a bar during Carnival and becoming intoxicated in an unsupervised environment. The risks are unfortunately high—drunken behavior can lead to dangerous situations, particularly if the person is left unattended, as was the case with a young medical student I knew.

This student ended up alone, stumbled out of the bar, took a wrong turn, felt exhausted, and ultimately froze to death. This tragic event underscores the importance of responsible behavior and a managed environment. The idea that this could happen without proper precautions is deeply concerning. Hence, while I understand the Church's reservations, I advocate for well-established and humane frameworks where drinking can be enjoyed without risk.

Personal Implications of Alcohol Intolerance

My stance on alcohol also impacts my own drinking habits and social behavior. I understand the risks and have a strong dislike for alcohol, especially from those who exhibit alcoholism. As a result, I often avoid such individuals because their habits make it impossible for me to differentiate between controlled drinking and excessive consumption. This personal challenge has led me to avoid communicating with alcoholics altogether.

I find it incredibly frustrating when I cant enjoy my favorite beverages because of someone else's habits. The sense of loss is akin to the trauma experienced by a rape victim. It's a frequent, albeit less traumatic, scenario that I wish to avoid. Therefore, when I am around people who drink frequently, I abstain from alcohol to maintain my own boundaries.

Differentiating Social Drinking from Abuse

During my Carnival celebrations, I might see an opportunity to partake in moderation. If I feel that I can handle a couple of drinks, and the environment is suitable, I consider such people trustworthy. It's not about dismissing their celebrations but rather about finding a safe and enjoyable way to be part of a community.

Historical Context and Cultural Significance

Historically, terms like voorimees and valgekaartlane offer insight into the cultural significance of alcohol. Voorimees, an old Estonian term, described someone who drank heavily and often ended up in trouble. Valgekaartlane, on the other hand, referred to a white guard officer who stayed sober despite the pressure to drink. These terms reflect the complexity of alcohol consumption in different contexts and the various outcomes it can produce.

The Importance of Moderation

While alcohol can bring joy in moderation, the risks of overindulgence are real. Like salt and chocolate cakes, alcohol should be consumed in a balanced manner. It's not about avoiding alcohol altogether but recognizing the potential dangers and ensuring that one's consumption remains within safe limits.

Conclusion

Ultimately, my view on alcohol is one of balance and responsibility. While I respect the Church's stance, I also recognize the value of occasional, controlled celebrations. The key is to ensure that such celebrations are conducted in a safe and supportive environment. This perspective not only informs my personal practices but also guides my interactions with others who may choose to drink.

For those interested in learning more about the Catholic Church's teaching on alcohol, I recommend checking out the video Catholic Teaching on Alcohol with Jacob Imam and Rob Praetzel. It provides a thoughtful and balanced discussion on the topic.