Addressing Dissatisfaction with Your Singing Voice

It is quite common for people to feel dissatisfied with their recorded singing voices, even if they enjoy singing in the moment. This article explores the reasons behind this feeling and provides tips on how to become more comfortable with your singing voice.

Physical Resonance

When you sing, your voice is heard through both air conduction and bone conduction. Air conduction, the sound traveling through the air, and bone conduction, the sound traveling through your skull, can make your voice sound richer and fuller to you than it does to others or in a recording. This phenomenon can lead to the discrepancy between how you hear your voice while singing and how it sounds on a recording.

Expectations vs. Reality

Our expectations of how we sound can often be influenced by professional recordings or performances. These expectations can be unrealistic, leading to disappointment when the reality of the recorded voice doesn't match these ideals. For instance, in your head, you might have an expectation that your voice sounds a certain way, but hearing the recorded version might be a letdown.

Self-Criticism

Many people are their own harshest critics. It’s natural to focus on imperfections and aspects of your voice that you dislike. However, this focus can overshadow the enjoyment you feel while singing. By redirecting your attention to the enjoyable aspects of your singing, you can begin to develop a more positive self-image and appreciation for your abilities.

Recording Quality

The quality of the equipment used to record your voice can significantly impact its sound. Poor-quality microphones or recording environments can distort your voice, making it sound different than you expect. Ensuring that your recording setup is adequate can help you get a better understanding of how your voice truly sounds.

Nervousness or Pressure

Sometimes, knowing that you are being recorded can create a sense of pressure, leading to a less relaxed performance. This can affect the way your voice sounds. Being mindful of your recording environment and taking steps to feel more comfortable can help you deliver a better performance.

Tips to Feel Better About Your Singing Voice

Improving your self-perception as a singer is crucial to developing a better relationship with your voice. Here are some tips:

Record Regularly: The more you listen to your recordings, the more accustomed you’ll become to your true voice. This can help you develop a more realistic and positive self-perception. Focus on Improvement: Instead of fixating on what you don’t like, focus on aspects you enjoy or want to improve. This can shift your mindset from negativity to positivity. Seek Feedback: Share your recordings with trusted friends or family for constructive feedback. This can provide you with a more objective view of your singing abilities. Taking Lessons: A vocal coach can help you develop your voice and build your confidence. Professional guidance can address technical issues and provide you with the tools to improve your singing.

Ultimately, many singers struggle with similar feelings and with time and practice, you may come to appreciate your unique voice. Remember, the more you sing and listen to your recorded voice, the more you will get used to it and the more you will develop an appreciation for it.

Feel free to contact us if you have any further questions or need more guidance on your singing journey!