Absolutely Normal: Adults Playing with Barbies
Is it okay for an adult to play with Barbies? Many would argue it depends on societal norms and personal comfort. However, the reality is when it doesn't harm others or oneself, it should be accepted without judgment.
Understanding the Social Stigma
Some adults, like myself, a 21-year-old, find solace and joy in playing with dolls, including Barbies. It’s a personal hobby that brings immense satisfaction, akin to collecting comic books or records. Just as these hobbies are accepted, doll playing should also be normalized.
For instance, an 18-year-old individual can find comfort in playing with Barbies when they are bored or seek a touch of childlike fun. Similarly, a 35-year-old person watches Disney movies, collects comic books, and attends Comic Con. These are all perfectly normal and enjoyable pastimes. One shouldn’t be constrained by societal expectations of age-appropriate behavior.
The Benefits and Acceptance of Doll Play
Playing with dolls as an adult is not weird. Many adults collect dolls, engage in doll photography, and even customize them as art pieces. Dolls were never intended for children alone. I, for example, enjoy playing with my Shadow High and Rainbow High dolls, dressing them up and taking incredible photos with them. I also made a customized doll car because I love them so much!
Society’s Misconceptions
Just like grown men playing with toy trains, doll play should be celebrated. Collecting and handling dolls is an activity that doesn’t need to be socially stigmatized. It’s okay to occasionally speak for the doll or create imaginary scenarios for them. These actions are personal and solely for enjoyment, not to be criticized by others.
Conclusion
Adults like me, and many others, find joy in playing with dolls. There is no harm or negative impact on anyone. If it is enjoyable and not illegal, then why should anyone care? Whether one is 18 or 35, playing with dolls is a normal and acceptable hobby. There is certainly nothing wrong with nurturing a love for Barbie or other dolls if it brings happiness and tranquility to one’s life.
In conclusion, embrace your hobbies, regardless of your age. Whether you are a doll, toy train enthusiast, or a comic book collector, the world is your playground!